Obviously, you were fine the day before yesterday, but after meeting yesterday, it seems like you’re back to the stranger stage. Most of the reasons for this or a similar situation is that in your live meeting, some mistakes were made. And these are mistakes that you can’t detect in time or even, you don’t consider it as a mistake.
Add to this the fact that most of the brothers are inexperienced in dating and are not able to cope with the on-the-spot problems during the dating process. These combined factors lead to, you in the psychological side of the girl greatly reduced points, which led to your meeting, her degree of interest in you reduced to the extent of your back strain cold, or even no longer care about you.
So, in the process of meeting with girls, what are the mistakes are easy to touch, there should be how to avoid it?
1. Nervousness
The root cause of your nervousness in meeting with girls is too little experience, or too little experience in meeting with girls alone.
Suggestion: you can go to a large shopping mall and chat with female shoppers to consult with the purpose of understanding to practice your mindset of contact with beautiful girls. Not only can you learn about a brand, but you can also practice your mindset and ability to express yourself.
2. Image is not good
When a girl meets you for the first time, she will make a score of your overall image, your hair, skin, height, clothing. If you don’t take care of yourself to meet, then your score in the girl’s heart will be very low, so much so that it affects the whole dating process in her enthusiasm for you.
Suggestion: Before meeting, take care of your image once again to meet every girl with the best side.
Hair should be handsome, skin should be clean, stray hairs should be trimmed off.
This aspect of clothing should be emphasized!!! Having a good wardrobe is a huge plus in the eyes of girls.
3. Minus points, unqualified behavioral actions
Look left and right, hunchback, eating hiccups, chewing mouth, stilted legs, smoking, eyes fluttering, littering, spitting, snap boogers, snap feet, swearing, bad attitude to the waiter, talking loudly.
Suggestions: walk with your feet facing forward, keep your head up and chest out, and chew with your mouth closed when eating.
4. Speech childish, no connotation
In the process of meeting and chatting, talking is always superficial, one-sided words, and even mouth. Girls will feel that you are a person with every connotation, there is no culture, and you are not a world of people, your impression will be greatly reduced. And these words you say, you may not realize.
Suggestions: read more books, read more newspapers, “eat less snacks and sleep more”. Spend a little time every day to read books, enrich yourself because you can not travel thousands of miles caused by the lack of experience. More go out and communicate with people, expand their social circle, and know more high-quality friends. Enrich your spiritual world, improve your cultural cultivation, and change the angle of your questions. Finally, in the expression of the first before filtering their own words there is no problem, accustomed to think differently.
5. Can’t read the subtext
In the process of dating girls, girls will involuntarily release some body language, often inadvertently appear, it is easy to ignore.
This also includes her body language released on purpose.
For example: her eyes, her expression, the action of her ruffled hair and so on.
And people often can’t read or judge what she means.
The girl will think, really a low emotional intelligence / do not understand the man.
Suggestion: pay more attention to the details of the girl’s changes in the date, such as a look, a raised eyebrow, a smile ….
Pay more attention to the change of her tone of voice, the reaction of her body situation.
6. Dating process
This is a very important part of the date, many brothers, in the date, for what to eat, where to eat, after eating what to do, watch a movie, where the cinema, drink what. These very basic processes are not clear, may turn a field to go very far, the girl will feel that you date with the old lady, are not prepared to arrange what? It will be very reduced points.
Suggestions: Before the date, be sure to use your brain to go through your dating process is how to arrange.
If you need to go ahead to step on the spot (go ahead to the scene to survey the environment).
7. Upgrade too quickly
Girls hate men who are gross as soon as they meet, and once this bad impression is made, it
will be unsalvageable, may walk away directly, directly pull black, delete you.
Suggestion: don’t do anything that crosses the line at an inappropriate stage of the relationship.