We usually encourage you to talk to the girl through chatting and communicating, and if the network chatting is very high, then hurry up and ask to meet while the iron is hot.
Meeting on a date is the fastest way to warm up a relationship, but what we often overlook is that not only the dating process, but also after the date is a good time to test your feelings.
So what else should we do after the date?
There are two types of situations: those where the date turned out well and those where the date turned out not so well. Let’s talk about the first situation, what should be done after the date.
1. Lower your expectations
For those who have had a lucky experience, the first thing to do is to lower your expectations after the date .
Even if you have organized the date in a great way, even if the girl gave you positive feedback during the date. Remember, don’t expect too much from the girl either .
Especially on the first date, as long as nothing goes wrong during the date, then the date is considered a success.
Girls may be slow to warm up or reserved reasons, for the dating process may be back home has not reacted to, this time the psychological expectations are too high is not conducive to your next play.
So whether the girl’s reaction is positive or cold, do not be complacent or self-doubt. Just adjust your mindset and keep in touch with the girl.
2. Send the girl home
There was once a terrier, in a program on the host asked the guest: you and girls dating generally send her what?
The guest: send her home.
At that time, all the audience and guests present to see this answer and funny and sigh, are lamenting the boy is how to find a girlfriend.
But some of our brothers go out on a date with a girl, thinking that the date has already made a good impression on her.
So they just let the girl go back on her own without her asking for anything. This is definitely a very good opportunity missed.
On the premise that the date was pretty good, the act of sending the girl home is definitely the icing on the cake for you .
It’s also possible to hold hands and have a deep conversation when it’s too cold on the road. For your feelings to warm up the impact is very big, do not always be too much trouble or look ahead.
3. Be prepared for the next date
After the date if two people have a good impression of each other, in the dating process is also more pleasant. Then be sure to pave the way for the next date.
But do not, do not go directly to ask the girl:
What do you think of me? What do you think of today’s date? And so on and so forth.
It’s not that these questions will be asked, it’s that girls simply can’t answer your questions.
Feeling good, then follow the previous chat, normal open topic, normal invitation. Ask her how she’s doing after every other day, etc.
Below, let’s talk about those dates that turned out to be less than ideal.
Some brothers like to deny themselves and give up on themselves when a date doesn’t go as well as they expected .
These bros will think, “Forget it, she’s so cold to me, I’d better not bother her lately, let’s put it aside. That’s how relationships get lost.
1. Identify the problem
If there is a problem, solve it. If there is a mistake, correct it. Running away is for cowards. If you mess up a date, the first thing you should do is to review the date and find out what went wrong.
Was it the image that made the girl feel unsatisfied or was it the date program that made the girl uninterested? Was it the tone of voice that made the girl uncomfortable or the topic of conversation that never came together?
Go through the process of your date and you can usually figure out what went wrong.
2. Redress the situation
After identifying the problem, make adjustments to the date and to yourself accordingly . Then invite the girl in a new way.
In this place must remember, the invitation to face the previous mistakes, to confess to the girl their faults. But just one sentence, do not hold on to it, and do not talk about it.
For example, you can say to the girl as if nothing had happened: “Haha, last time the arrangement was not so good. If you have time this weekend, let’s go eat your favorite grilled fish.
This can let the girls see that you are good at changing the open-minded and can make your invitation to become more natural. If the girl said yes, it is equal to a half of the success.
3. Improve yourself
Sometimes a girl is indifferent to you, and the feedback on the date is not positive is not all the reason for the date. It could simply be that you don’t feel right for each other .
If the girl is not positive or cold, and there is nothing wrong with the date, then it is a problem with your “person”. In the girl’s opinion, there is nothing about you that attracts her.
If you really like this girl, then you need to improve your speaking skills, communication skills, and other qualities that will make you more attractive.
At the end of the day, one of the most fundamental things to talk about is attraction. Attraction is the fastest way to accomplish a relationship.