1. Don’t hang yourself repeatedly on a tree.
Regardless of any excuse, private solo invitations twice, in the interval of a month within the appointment does not come out, directly next, not back to WeChat the same reason. We are all adults, the first solo date you do not come out, OK, does not mean anything. The second time both parties dating intentions, each other is not knowingly. So no matter how she rejected your reason to embellish, the essence of one, you are not qualified to let me take the time. To know like you will take the initiative, the character of the slow hot or cool nature are excuses, those girls who are interesting to me, take the initiative to take 3 hours of high-speed rail to see me, I am not interested in the girl, we live in a neighborhood, still about not come out.
And girls who label themselves as slow to warm up are most likely green tea who have no feelings for you but want to hang on to you for a long time. Look carefully, I said labeling, because the real slow hot, she will not say she is slow hot, collect spare tire women may not realize themselves. But this is not to blame them, keep a spare tire is the female animal in nature to choose a mate one of the strategies, this point of human and animals in nature is no different. Of course, in the face of such a girl you have to stay first, don’t be cynical about her, because there is no need to be, you just have to talk about her, she spread the word, your reputation is not good, so just deal with it coldly, don’t pay a single heart to her on it.
2. Don’t say I love you before a girl falls in love with you.
The best state of two people’s feelings is equal, many boys will make a mistake, is too early to say I love you. One will let the girls think you are not reliable, only to know how long to say love, you to me so you to others is not also so. Secondly, if the girl has not yet come to love you, you said these words, she will feel that she has no way to you back to the same heart, then this matter will make her feel guilty, so she will try to do everything possible to try to love you, but the effect of this effort will make the love disappeared, so in the end, she will still say a sentence: “I’m sorry, I’ve already tried very hard to try to love you, but still can’t love.”
3. Confession is not a rallying cry, but a ritual to make up for success
A long time ago, when I was still a little white in love, I was often misled by TV dramas or movies, such as the brave confession, love her to say it out loud, I once thought that chasing a girl is to chat with her more, and then ask out, confession together, and then realized that the confession is more than a white form. Because girls will often be the first time to detect the boys on her interesting, so do not have to deliberately inform. Only a lot of girls are good at playing dumb, so the boys believe, is not this girl really do not know I like her, and then confessed to death. Confession too early will give the girl a sense of oppression, if she is not ready to accept your premature confession, you have given this girl the opportunity to reject you, or a reminder. The only significance of the confession is to determine the girl is also interesting to you, the two of you together after making up a sense of ceremony, make up a commitment can be, before the ambiguous period is the process of slowly together.
4. No one is obliged to go through your scruffy appearance to discover your beautiful heart
Sometimes what makes your image significantly reduced is not your slightly average face value, but your greasy hair, wrinkled shirts, jeans that have not been washed for a few days and nose hairs that are calling out to you. You can not look handsome, but you have to be clean and tidy, it is not only your image, but also conveys the state of your life. Straight guys, let’s switch out the winter punch bowl, summer plaid and t-shirts full of wacky patterns okay. Your financial strength is not bad, find a good relationship with the girl to help you guys with a good match, your imagination temperament will immediately upgrade N level.
Boys meet like girls, can be in the case of time to fight for a little, but never because of girls, affect their work and life, because gender relations inside, the most lethal is your own charm. You only become more and more good, you attract the probability of girls will be more and more, if you because the girls affect the work and life, then your value will be reduced, and finally, into a vicious circle.
5. Girls are not chased, but attracted.
Once I like a girl, it is conceited and inferior, conceited in their own enthusiasm, inferiority complex in do not know what way to approach her, so I chose the easiest way to think of, is to pay unconditionally. Cold days cold to ask for warmth, sick to seek medical advice, hungry right away with takeout now downstairs, the 14th of each month to prepare a bouquet of roses, and then still from the girl heard the most classic “I’m very touched, but I only take you as a friend.” So it’s not that there is no point in giving, but there is no point in giving without attraction. Whether it is a woman or a man, is not because simply good to you, and choose to be with a person, show good this way, is to be used in the case of winning each other’s recognition.
The most worthless thing in this world is the sincerity without value premise. You go to look for a job, you tell the interviewer, although I do not meet the requirements of the position, and do not have much work experience, but I I am sincere about this job, can you give me a chance? Guess what you get accepted? You have to understand, girls want is not a all day around their own, meek obedient little dirt dog, they want to be an untamed mighty tiger.