Many people and girls dating is like looking for someone to eat a meal together, you imagine holding hands, hugging, kissing the same did not happen, and you will find that the girl’s mood is getting lower and lower, and will even find excuses to take the initiative to end the date.
Why is your date always failed? The key lies in that you do not know these tips in dating.
01, dating full strategy
Dating the beginning of the half hour, there is bound to be strange, to know that the girl must be waiting for you to open the topic, if the interaction between the two sides can not mobilize the mood of the two people at the same time, then there may be dating both sides or one side of the date will lose interest in the date, the mood will slowly decline, and finally lead to a breakup.
Control the sense of need
Girls see you for the first time although there will be a sense of mystery and excitement, but still will be because there is no real interactions before, resulting in insecurity, and even a little bit of defensiveness against you, which is normal, and this time you need to dispel her concerns and establish a sense of comfort. Some brothers may think that a little enthusiasm, let the girl see my sincerity should be good, but this will only make the girl feel that you are not on her intention, so pay attention to a sense of proportion, because after all, you are not her, your thinking does not represent her.
So at first you are not so familiar with the time, you do not show very enthusiastic, too much initiative, to the friend of the mind to face her on the good. For example, just meet, girls late, you have seen the girls, do not rush to run over, but to reach out and gesture to each other on the line, to let her take the initiative to you, do not look down on this detail, can from the beginning to let each other feel that you do not have any intention of her you are a high-value people, rather than see the girl on the road of the man. You should know that the purpose of this is to reduce the girl’s defenses, and the second is to not let you fall into a passive situation, by the girl led by the nose.
Ease the tension
The first time you meet, the two basically will have some constraints, this time you can use some humor to ease the atmosphere, for example, you can say: “You look different from the photo ah” pause for two seconds, and then say: “real than the photo is more lovely / more mature! “This creates a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. Then you can propose to walk along the street with her, time control in about 5 minutes, and then look for a more quiet and romantic look a little cafe (before letting you get there half an hour in advance is not for nothing), this time you can sit down and slowly communicate.
02, chat how to interact with girls
Be assertive
Boys in chatting with girls must have the main idea, the specific approach is, in the language, do not just nod and say yes, or directly to each other a variety of commitments, do not flatter the initiative to lead the topic, if the other side of the topic is not adventurous sense, timely switch.
In both sides are in mutual understanding of each other’s values, your language and behavior is to coordinate with each other, do not cater to each other. The need to hold the right sense of demand
You may think that frequent compliments and nods are the shortcut to opening someone’s heart, however, this is not the case, girls actually prefer those who initially act cold but become more positive later in the date. This will make the girl think that you like her more on the inside than on the outside, and this is especially true for good-looking girls.
Demonstrate a consistent outlook with the girl
Whether or not your outlook is consistent largely determines whether or not a girl wants to go out with you in the long run, so don’t just talk about things you both like in the chatting process, but also try things you both don’t like. It has been found that people are more intimate when they agree on things they don’t like than when they agree on things they do like. If you don’t know what she dislikes more, here we suggest that you can start from the social hotspots, express your opinion, but don’t be too radical.
03, dating how to upgrade the relationship
This time you and girls have generally established a sense of familiarity and trust, then you can carry out further intimacy upgrade, and want a girl to like you, you must provoke the girl’s emotions, as long as the girl has emotional fluctuations on you, then produce feelings is not difficult, why do you need to have emotions, you guys think about why the girls usually like to watch variety shows, and like to watch Korean dramas. The former is happy and interesting, and the latter is romantic to bring in.
So how can we mobilize the girls’ emotions? Here are two aspects: verbal provocation and eye hooks
A lot of brothers in and girls dating time are too honest, do not dare to joke with the girls, some ambiguous words are even more embarrassed to say, but so the girls will think you are very boring, maybe do friends suitable, but the boyfriend even if. So in the process of dating girls, be sure to show your fun and humor at the right time, flirt with girls, tease each other’s heart. Brothers should learn to flirt with girls in the interaction, so that you can quickly draw the distance between you and the girls, creating ambiguous atmosphere. And in the process of communication with the girls must pay attention to each other’s eyes, showing that you are listening to her seriously, like a person, the love in the eyes can not be hidden, sometimes an exchange of eyes, you know she likes you or not.
The body into the move
We are in the process of dating girls, want to upgrade the relationship, physical contact is an essential part, of course, the body into the progressive, even if it is to eat girls tofu we have to use the elegant posture, rather than come up with a look of a rush, that will scare the girls.
Dating with girls, you have to take each date seriously, not because the girls agreed to your date to feel that everything is fine, in fact, not, the date is just a way for you to enhance your distance from each other, if you do not do well in the date, you will still be passed by the girls.
In the end, love dating needs to be sincere, but just have a sincere, straight and frothy is not pleasing to the eye.
The set itself is not good or bad, end to see the purpose of doing this thing in the end in the end is why, willing to like people heart, in fact, is also a kind of sincerity.