The last post was about how to dress up before a date, so let’s talk about what to do, what to talk about and how to behave on a date in this post.
Tips
1, the smile does not hide people
Girls good-looking smile is very plus points, but to be generous smile, smile when dodge and head down is a little bit obscene Oh.
2, eat without burying the head
Do not eat because of nervousness and urgency, etc. bury your head to eat, do not bow your head, do not bend over, let the chopsticks to find the mouth.
Chatting
1, the first about four do not chat: income, past love history, marriage, negative energy.
Affordability is a sensitive topic, if you want to know, you can subtly go through some judgmental questioning to get information, but do not chat directly about this topic.
Although it is said that from the boy’s evaluation and attitude towards his predecessor, you can feel a little bit of his character, but the first date is not suitable to talk about this topic, you can talk about it in the back of a few dates.
Marriage is too long term, negative energy has an impact on the dating atmosphere, so don’t complain, spit and so on in the first date.
2, not gossip, not strong, not arrogant
Chat content do not gossip-based, those women who have nothing to do old lady guest more love to do such things. Not strong, not arrogant, show the gentleness of a small woman.
3, not polite
Dating is a sensual dance, forget those social etiquette and social vocabulary, talk more about their own feelings, ideas, etc., interesting past, growing up, their favorite things, etc., do not have to be polite.
4, have a male topic
Being able to talk about men’s topics is a great way to make people look at you and get extra points.
5, ask for advice
When talking about some of the topics that they are not good at, and can not get around, it may be like the other side to ask for advice.
If you talk about the topic of tea, the other side asked “what kind of tea do you like to drink” “I like tea very much, do you like to drink tea?”. In fact, most girls don’t know much about tea, so if you’re asking for advice, the entry point must be small and subtle.
If the response said “I do not know about tea eh, you seem to like tea, I can learn more from you.” Such an answer is barely passable, but a little more detailed words would be better, “I do not know much about it, so you think that 18-year-old girl like me, suitable for drinking which kind of tea?”
After asking for advice comes praise, then thanks, and after thanks comes practice, so that one way or another, the interaction is up.
It can also be used as a continuation topic, for example, when you look for him to chat again someday, you can use this to open the chat, “tried the tea you recommended to me last time, it is very much in line with my tastes oh,” and use this as a point of contact.
Take the initiative to end the date
The end of the date should be initiated by yourself, keeping your own frame of mind and making the date about as interesting as it can be.
Of course, if you can end the date abruptly at the climax, it will be more appealing to the other person.
On a first date, you can end the date around 10:30 p.m. Even if the guy stays, don’t linger too long.
After the end of the date, there will be some text message interaction, simple chat a few sentences, express their feelings about the date, do not be polite to say, today’s date is very pleasant, thank you for the hospitality, or to know you are very happy and so on. Should say, “today’s date is quite special” or “feel that we are quite close” and so on, mainly can turn on the sensual switch words, provoke emotions.