It doesn’t prove that she likes you, it only proves that she doesn’t hate you.
Active offense and passive acceptance, are two completely different two concepts.
Girls are willing to go to your date, because she understands your heart, willing to try to understand you, willing to give both sides the opportunity to develop.
“Going on a date” is just a kind of judgment, wait and see, show personal attitude to encourage behavior, does not mean that she also like you, not to mention that she acquiesced to what.
The vast majority of girls do not understand each other in the initial stage, and will not be in the behavior of excessive display of their own initiative, if she is interested in you, most of the details will be reflected from the difficult to detect.
And these details, most from the depths of the subconscious desire to establish intimate relations, perhaps even her own did not realize, but the accuracy, definitely more reliable than the passive acceptance of the “appointment”.
These interaction details include:
1, take the initiative to share the daily small things and their moods
Girls do prefer to share their emotions, but never blindly venting, who is the object of sharing is very important.
In reality, the vast majority of girls will share their daily routine and moods with people they are close to and trust, such as family members and girlfriends. The daily routine is boring, but very personal, even with a strong purpose, once shared with the wrong person, more misunderstandings, more trouble.
If a girl, take the initiative to share their daily life to you, talk about their own emotions, this can not prove that she is mouthy and talkative – it can only prove that you in her heart, already have an uncertified name. You must be higher than an ordinary heterosexual friend, or even a BFF.
She has a good feeling about you, eight or nine.
2, easy to be emotional, will show vulnerability, will play a small temper with you
Let’s put it this way, every girl is mature and stable, when they are on the defensive about you.
This is also the love field veterans to judge the concentration of girls’ feelings is an important standard – the more girls, the more difficult to control emotions, on behalf of her feelings for you to invest in the deeper, the more difficult to hold; on the contrary, if you are outside the safety of the girls, do not have full trust and enough like, the girls will be careful and detached from the control of their own image, you let her make, she The most important thing to remember is that you can’t do anything about it.
The feelings invested in less, she is naturally calm like water.
This is also why many guys feel that the girl in love after the “become trouble” the main reason, because the girl more love, and will not be able to correctly express the emotions, it is easy to develop into a pressurized demon.
The emotional investment is silent, step by step, even the girls themselves do not realize. Outwardly, the most immediate effect is to see how easily the girl’s emotions are affected by you.
When she began because you are emotionally unstable, show their own vulnerability and small temper, intentional bullying you, want you to bow down, most likely she has liked you.
3, care about your personal life and try to participate in it
In emotional issues, most girls have a higher sense of morality, a clearer sense of boundaries, biological instincts of self-preservation, so that the girls were born to be brave enough to reject the opposite sex and feelings that are unfavorable to them, and will not choose to dwell too much, and will not harvest a sense of accomplishment from it.
Because of this, when a girl shows sincere concern for you and tries to get involved in your personal life, she is basically ready for you to think more. She is not the central air conditioning, also has nothing to do with the Virgin Mary heart of the people, her heart clear, she cares about, is to show her good sense of you.
4, the many aspects of possessiveness
Possessiveness is often bundled with “dependence”, she is strongly dependent on you, no you can not, will instinctively possess you.
The same as emotional, possessiveness itself is also an emotion, and the degree of feelings are inseparable, unknowingly blurring each other’s boundaries, feelings rendered to the inability to rationally self-control, the girl will show a strong possessiveness. Including jealousy, control, and excessive attachment, separation anxiety.
5, have expectations of you, such as expect your return, expect your action, etc.
Different from the boys, the girl’s “like” is often bundled with a sense of agreement and hope.
Maybe you didn’t promise her that she would show up tonight, but she was expecting you to show up, and when the expectation fell through, she would have a problem with you;
Perhaps the two sides of the relationship did not really develop into a couple, but she has been self-substituted into the role of “girlfriend”, but also want to enjoy the power of the girlfriend, if you do not act in place, she will also be disappointed.
The human subconscious is always one step ahead of rationality, and girls like you after the subconscious, is full of unspoken expectations of you.
She wants to take from you, but also want to give to you bravely, this is the first step to establish intimate relations instinct.
Therefore, the passive acceptance of the behavior of “going on a date” does not accurately represent the girl’s emotional tendencies.
Many boys perspective, girls willing to go on a date, as if this thing has become a big half, and even directly into the role of the boyfriend in a hurry, in the dating process, to make a lot of behavior across the border, so that girls feel uncomfortable, obscene, rude.
After a date, you think both sides into, the result in the girl’s heart, you were passed over.
And from a girl’s perspective, going on a date is just the preparatory stage. This stage determines your image and persona in her mind, her willingness to push for a new relationship with you, and the extent of her own actions afterward.
Nothing more, nothing less.
That’s the difference in pace between guys and girls in the push for intimacy.
Typically, guys are more fast-paced and seem to be more likely to be “self-absorbed” and frivolous, while girls are more cautious, slower-paced, and require patience to heat up the relationship.