01. Extra points for the first item
You can’t be late for a date, remember! Only men waiting for women, not women waiting for men, I believe that ninety percent of the girls like to have a silly boy waiting for her, if you do, maybe it will give her a very good impression. If there are special circumstances, please advance at least 20 minutes to inform the girl, and please use reasonable reasons to cover, such as carry a small gift is not too expensive, late after the girl said: “I’m sorry to be late, to you to choose a small gift, pick and pick do not know that which is good to choose, so late.”
Girls listen to this sentence, and get a small gift, not only will not be angry, but will feel you are very thoughtful, heart very happy.
02, Extra points for the second item
Eating or chatting you want to give the girl, create a safe and comfortable atmosphere, she can gradually lift the “ early warning mechanism ”. If you a seat, sitting next to her, undoubtedly prematurely exposed your sense of need, bear in mind that this behavior is a DLV (Demonstration of Low Value), people are disgusted. Choose a normal “face-to-face” seat to play a safe card and start the conversation smoothly, but face-to-face seats make it difficult for you to reach out to her, and there is no way to do something intimate.
You won’t be able to do anything intimate. Therefore, you can take the lead and choose the “long couch”, you can sit side by side, because eventually, you will sit over and sit next to the girl! Once the girl is familiar with you, you can change seats.
03, Extra points for the third item
Dating behavior and demeanor to be generous and steady, do not have excess small actions, scratching the face, digging the nose, pulling the ear these should be discarded. Chat with the girl to talk about skills, interesting topics girls generally like, for example: the student era of interesting things, have been to the scenic spots, hobbies, network anecdotes, etc. are very good topics. Chat content to positive energy, do not have nothing to slag off your boss, do not complain all day about social injustice, and do not casually talk to the girl about your predecessor, because she and you are not very familiar with very familiar, and will make her feel that you have no sunshine in life, full of negative emotions, even if they are not happy together.
04, Extra points for the fourth item
You should be able to praise each other on a date. Here you can start from the details of the girl, for example, you can say that the girl’s eyes have God, another example is that you can say that the girl’s lip gloss color is very beautiful, in short, praise must be more tangible, otherwise it will make the girl have a feeling of being patted on the back, in the case of an awkward topic must be cleverly converted. For example, the girl said she loves shopping, but the body is slightly fat, can not buy the right clothes.
At this time, the low IQ of the boys will blurt out: “I see you are only one hundred and thirty-four, it is not so difficult to buy clothes it.” The girl must be furious after hearing you say this. In fact, you can skillfully defuse this embarrassing topic.
You can say: “Women care more about fat and thin than men, but actually you know what? In my opinion, a moderate figure is a healthy expression.”
Such an answer not only circumvents the problem of the girl’s body, but also shows your attitude, do not care about girls on the fat side. Sister after hearing you say so, will give you a big plus.
05, Extra points for the fifth item
After the end of the date to take the initiative to send the girl home, of course, the girl to politely refuse not to force, you can take the initiative to help the girl called a rental, has been sent to leave the line of sight, in fact, the girl is the details of control, the above said that these details you control will give you a lot of extra points, it can be said that the first date is a harmonious and beautiful is the perfect pavement for the next date.